Before preparing your child, many parents wonder: when is the best age for a photo session? → Read my guide on the best age for children’s portraits.

Keep it light and positive

Children are very sensitive to expectations. If a photo session feels like something serious or something they need to “perform” for, they may feel pressure.

Instead, present it as something fun — almost like a little playtime.

During the session, we keep things very relaxed and playful. We might use simple things like bubbles or a bit of confetti to create natural reactions and genuine smiles. These little moments of play help children forget about the camera and simply be themselves.

There’s no need to ask them to smile or behave in a certain way. The most beautiful images come from natural expressions: curiosity, laughter, and those quiet in-between moments.

What should my child wear?

Simple is always best.

Choose soft, neutral tones or gentle colors that don’t distract from your child’s face. Avoid clothing with large logos, busy patterns, or characters, as they tend to take attention away from the expression.

Comfort is just as important — if your child feels good in what they’re wearing, it will show in the photos.

Can my child bring a toy or a comfort item?

Yes, of course.

A small toy or a favorite stuffed animal can be very helpful, especially for younger children. It gives them something familiar to hold onto and helps them feel more comfortable in a new environment.

We usually start with it if needed, and once your child feels at ease, we can gently move away from it for more natural portraits.

The goal is never to force anything — just to create a space where your child feels safe and free to be themselves.

What if my child doesn’t cooperate?

That’s completely normal — and nothing to worry about.

Every child is different. Some need a little time to observe and settle in before they feel comfortable, and that’s perfectly okay.

I always adapt to your child’s rhythm. We take our time, we play, and we keep things relaxed so they can warm up naturally.

And if your child is really not feeling it that day, it’s always better to reschedule. I will never force a child to pose — the goal is to create a positive experience, not pressure.

Can parents be in the photos?

Absolutely.

While the focus of the session is on your child, parents are always welcome to step in for a few photos. These moments often become some of the most meaningful images — simple, natural connections between you and your child.

There’s no need to prepare anything special. Neutral tones and simple outfits work beautifully and keep the attention on your connection.

If you’d like to be included, just let me know — we can keep it very relaxed and effortless.

How to prepare your child emotionally

The best thing you can do is keep things simple.

You can tell your child they’re going to meet someone new and play a little — no need to mention “photo session” too much or build expectations around smiling.

When children feel free to be themselves, their personality naturally comes through.

The day of the session

Try to plan the session at a time when your child is usually well-rested and comfortable. A small snack beforehand can also help.

Other than that, there’s nothing special you need to do.

Just come as you are.

A final note

Childhood goes by incredibly fast. These portraits are not about perfection — they’re about capturing who your child is, right now.

The little expressions, the laughter, the quiet moments… those are the memories you’ll want to hold onto.

If you’d like to plan a session, I’d love to welcome you to my studio in Bordeaux and create something meaningful for your family.

You can learn more about how the sessions work here → [Children’s portrait sessions in Bordeaux]

Or feel free to reach out directly → [Get in touch]